In our lives, we come across many people. We do
dealings with many people both at the personal level and the professional
level. We start developing grudges due
to someone’s attitude or any other reason. This grudge starts turning into aversion and
even if the person has no concern with your life now, the grudge still remains
in your heart. This person could be your relative, friend, or even a family
member. Having negative feelings or
thoughts towards another human being is not healthy both in religious and
social terms.
Having a forgiving nature is a major blessing from Allah
SWT. Those people who don’t have the capability to forgive are always in some
state of mental war with their own selves as well as others. People who forgive
others easily are in my opinion, very courageous people. It takes a little bit of effort and a lot of
faith and patience to forgive people that have wronged you in anyway. I can
understand it’s a difficult task but it is not impossible.
In our daily lives, we make many mistakes and then
we ask forgiveness from our Creator. Doesn’t Alllah SWT forgive and then keeps
on blessing us? We always want to be forgiven, don’t we? Then let’s develop the
habit of having a forgiving nature. Let go of things that have hurt you.
Take a moment now and forgive all your family,
friends, colleagues, strangers and anyone in your life whom you felt has hurt
you or wronged you in anyway. And most
importantly, Ask forgiveness from Allah SWT ALWAYS. You never know on the Day
of Judgment, this act may do wonders for you as well the other person, In Shaa’
Allah. Ameen. Sum Ameen.
I hope and pray that we all develop a forgiving
nature. May Allah SWT forgive us all. Ameen.